Updated: Nov 1, 2021
There is a time and a place for control, but if we put it in charge of our lives we end up totally rigid.
That's why people have learned how to be cold, how to touch others and yet not touch them, how to see people and yet not see them.
There is much, much more to life than being "on top of things. People don't look into each other's eyes, they don't hold hands, they don't try to feel each other's energy, they don't allow each other to pour - very afraid, somehow just managing, cold and dead, in a straitjacket.
Take a deep breath, loosen your necktie and take it easy. If mistakes happen, it's okay. If things get a little out of hand, it's probably just what the doctor ordered.